You should get a chastity device, so you’re not controlled by your cock’s strength. Instead of being a prisoner to your erections and orgasms, you’ll become a committed slave to your spouse—who is the keyholder.
Wearing a chastity device can help you “de-program” yourself from the “normal” view of male masturbation—that is straight to the point and all about “getting it over with.” Instead, you’ll discover the importance of managing and delaying your orgasms so that they might become more intense, prolonged, and delightful.
You will approach your daily life with a clear brain because you will no longer be preoccupied with your cock or the need to masturbate or experience continual orgasms. As you eventually let go of your cock’s control, you’ll notice that you’re becoming more sensitive, a better listener, and a nicer, more intuitive partner.