When invited to a formal meal, it’s essential to know the dining etiquette. Dress up in nice clothing, but not too casual or revealing, and arrive on time or no more than ten minutes late. Use simple utensils from the outside in, and place napkins on your lap. Wait until everyone has been served before taking a bite. Toasts must be reserved until the host initiates one. Keep in mind that phone usage is impolite during meals.
When eating soup, remember to spoon from the side of the bowl and avoid slurping. Do not blow on the soup to cool it down and be sure to take small sips. If you’re unsure about how to eat the main course, observe others’ behavior or ask discreetly. Cut meat into small pieces and chew with your mouth closed. Be mindful of chewing gum and remove it before entering the dining area.
Elaborate on the conversation but steer clear of sensitive topics such as politics or religion. Try asking questions about the speaker’s interests, and keep remarks short and courteous. It’s polite to compliment the meal and thank the host before leaving.
Formal dining etiquette isn’t necessary every day, but it’s best to be aware of it and practice it in formal situations. It shows respect for others, creating a positive and respectful environment.